Never get married when you're still immature |
Marriage is a legal union of a man and woman who falls in love and agrees to live with each other as a couple. Most of adults are getting married when they feel ready to build up their own family and home which require lots of things. Nowadays, along with the fast speed of life and the fast growing of population, most of young adults involve themselves with love faster and get married earlier; however the divorce rate is also higher than before. Then in what age should people get married? Should people under the age of eighteen be allowed to get married? For me, the answer is no. Indeed, people under the age of eighteen should not be allowed to get married because of these three reasons.
Firstly, young adult couples are too
immature to know what the marriage life is. Because of their young age, they
do not have enough ability to nurture their marriage life well after they get
married. Sometimes they do not know what kinds of behaviors they should behave
toward each other. The young, on the other hand, are easy to get angry when
their partners do something wrong or misbehave toward them. Moreover, they cannot
control and run their own family life with a healthy one, and their marriage life
will not last long.
Secondly, marriage at young age can
be harmful to physical and mental health. Young couples, especially girls are likely
to have many problems than boys do. For example, girls who are getting marriage
under the age of eighteen are dangerous when they get pregnant because their
bodies have not develop fully, and this will lead to serious problems during
their childbirth. Moreover, marriage at the young age can promote domestic
violence and marital rape and other problems such as: HIV, STDs, VD, and STIs,
etc.
Finally, child marriage can face financial
problems. Generally speaking, people under the age of eighteen are the age of
absorbing knowledge and skills, but they will face financial problems if they
fail to do so and get married at age of not yet mature enough. Because their life at school is
short, they don’t have any specific knowledge or skills to earn money to
support their family.
On the other side of early marriage might say that
couples have more time to live with each other and can be rich at the young ages.
However, when people decided to get married, they should ponder both positive
and negative impacts of their early marriage. In the early age, people had
better to absorb and enhance their knowledge rather than hurriedly getting marriage.
In conclusion, marriage is a
contract signed by a man and woman as a serious thing in peoples’ life, and
people should ponder it before getting married. Therefore, people under the age
of eighteen should not be allowed to marry because they are too immature, and it
can be harmful to physical and mental health and can face financial problems.
If you are at the young age and want to get married, you should think of these
three reasons carefully.
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